Flowers are often chosen in a hurry, a familiar shape, a safe color, something that feels suitable enough. But the flowers people truly remember are rarely chosen that way. They stay with us because they feel personal, because they seem, somehow, to understand the person receiving them.
At PureSeed, we don’t see flowers as decoration. We see them as a quiet language. When chosen with care, they reflect how someone thinks, feels, and moves through the world. Personality isn’t a label here, it’s simply a way of paying closer attention.
A Very Simple Way to Guess Someone’s MBTI
You don’t need to ask someone to take a personality test. In daily life, people reveal who they are naturally.
All you need to observe are four simple patterns:
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How do they recharge?
They enjoy quiet time alone → Introvert (I)
They gain energy from people and interaction → Extravert (E)
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What do they focus on when they speak?
Facts, details, real-life experiences → Sensing (S)
Ideas, meanings, future possibilities → Intuition (N)
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How do they make decisions?
Logic, efficiency, objectivity → Thinking (T)
Emotions, values, relationships → Feeling (F)
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How do they approach life?
Planned, structured, decisive → Judging (J)
Flexible, spontaneous, adaptable → Perceiving (P)
You don’t need to be exact. Even an approximate understanding helps you choose flowers that feel intentional rather than random.
🔍 Analysts (NT)
Analysts value clarity and purpose. They may not be openly sentimental, but they are highly perceptive when it comes to quality and intention.
INTJ / ENTJ
Strategic · Confident · Purpose-driven
INTJ and ENTJ personalities are driven by vision and direction. They think in terms of structure, strategy, and long-term purpose.They are not easily impressed by surface beauty, but they quickly recognize intention, precision, and confidence.
Thoughtful choices matter to them, especially those that feel deliberate and restrained. Rather than emotional display, they respond to clarity of form and strength of idea, qualities that naturally guide the flowers they are drawn to.
Best flower choices:
- Orchid — minimal, refined, quietly powerful
- Cymbidium — structured elegance with authority
- Anthurium — bold form, modern confidence
Why it works:
These flowers reflect intelligence and intention rather than overt romance.
INTP / ENTP
Curious · Idea-driven · Unconventional
INTP and ENTP personalities live in the world of ideas. They are curious, imaginative, and often resistant to tradition for tradition’s sake.
They enjoy discovering meaning in unexpected places and are drawn to originality. Predictable gestures rarely move them, but something unusual will capture their attention immediately.
Best flower choices:
- Bird of Paradise — expressive, unconventional form
- Ginger Flower — distinctive and energetic
- Matthiola — understated complexity
Why it works:
These flowers spark curiosity and feel like a thoughtful, non-obvious choice.
💖 Diplomats (NF)
Diplomats experience life through emotion and intuition. They are sensitive to tone, intention, and symbolism, often more than words themselves.
INFJ / ENFJ
Reflective · Empathetic · Purposeful
INFJ and ENFJ personalities are deeply attuned to others.They think about meaning, connection, and emotional truth.
They value sincerity and notice when something is chosen with care. Superficial gestures feel empty to them, but quiet, thoughtful choices stay with them.
Best flower choices:
- White Rose — purity, honesty, emotional clarity
- Eustoma — gentle elegance and depth
- Peony — layered emotion and richness
Why it works:
These flowers feel intentional, calm, and emotionally grounded.
INFP / ENFP
Romantic · Expressive · Idealistic
INFP and ENFP personalities lead with feeling and imagination. They are drawn to beauty that tells a story and gestures that feel personal.
They value emotional authenticity over perfection. A simple flower chosen with care means more to them than something extravagant without feeling.
Best flower choices:
- Baby’s Breath — softness, innocence, emotional openness
- Tulip — poetic simplicity
- Chamomile — calm, warmth, emotional comfort
Why it works:
These flowers feel gentle, intimate, and emotionally safe.
🛡️ Sentinels (SJ)
Sentinels are rooted in responsibility and care. They value consistency, tradition, and actions that feel reliable.
ISTJ / ESTJ
Responsible · Structured · Practical
ISTJ and ESTJ personalities are steady and dependable. They appreciate clarity, purpose, and things that last.
They may not seek emotional expression, but they respect gestures that feel solid and sincere.
Best flower choices:
- Red Rose — timeless commitment
- Carnation — loyalty and endurance
- Hydrangeas — fullness and stability
Why it works:
Classic flowers reflect their respect for tradition and strength.
ISFJ / ESFJ
Warm · Caring · Relationship-focused
ISFJ and ESFJ personalities express love through care and presence. They notice the emotional comfort a gesture provides rather than how dramatic it looks.
They appreciate flowers that feel familiar, welcoming, and warm.
Best flower choices:
Why it works:
These flowers feel nurturing and emotionally reassuring.
🌟 Explorers (SP)
Explorers live fully in the moment. They value experience, sensation, and visual impact.
ISTP / ESTP
Bold · Action-oriented · Confident
ISTP and ESTP personalities respond strongly to what they can see and feel immediately. They are drawn to bold gestures and strong presence rather than emotional explanation.
Best flower choices:
- Sunflower — vitality and strength
- Anthurium — modern and striking
- Ginger Flower — fearless expression
Why it works:
These flowers make a clear, confident impression.
ISFP / ESFP
Aesthetic-sensitive · Expressive · Emotionally aware
ISFP and ESFP personalities experience emotion through beauty. They notice color, texture, and mood instinctively.
They respond deeply to flowers that feel alive and expressive.
Best flower choices:
Why it works:
These flowers speak directly to their artistic sensitivity.
Conclusion
In the end, choosing flowers is less about getting it “right” and more about paying attention. When we slow down and consider how someone thinks, feels, and moves through the world, flowers stop being a gesture and become a message.
At PureSeed, we believe every arrangement begins with understanding. Not trends. Not formulas. Just quiet observation and thoughtful intention. Because the flowers that stay with us are never random, they feel seen, understood, and chosen with care.
















